Frequently Asked Questions


  • Unlike other ice rollers (made with plastic wrapped around gel or with stainless steel), this roller is made with solid aluminum, which helps keep it icy cold longer.
  • The handle is made with silicone for a more comfortable - but sturdy- feel.
  • Hot Mess is designed to be 20-30% bigger than any other ice rollers in the market - from the size of the ice roller to the length of the handle.
  • Has a fingerprint placement guide, for better grip.
  • instantly reduce puffiness and redness (think how an ice-pack can reduce swelling and bruising!)
  • boosts circulation, bringing blood to the skin surface - restoring radiance and encouraging optimum cell function
  • helps shrink the size of pores, for smoother-looking skin
  • helps with lymphatic drainage through the combination of a facial massage and ice therapy

The coldness of THE HOT MESS can vary depending on the environment 🦋 everyone has a personal preference so here’s a quick breakdown:

🧊 FREEZING: add to freezer (gets colder the deeper u put into ur freezer) for those who want to experience a cold similar to the arctic- ICE, ICE BABY (LAURYN LIKES FUCKING FREEZING- freezer is her preference). test on ur wrist before u use.

❄️ CHILLED: fridge for those who want a cooling experience or have sensitive skin type, similar cold to cucumbers on ur eyes during a facial. some of our team likes the fridge but most prefer the freezer).

☁️ SLIGHTLY COLD: on ur vanity, all cute- for those who want to use the HOT MESS almost exclusively for facial massage & lymphatic drainage- TSC roller is naturally is slightly cold to the touch, but will not be abrasive.

sometimes the Hot Mess Roller gets a little squeaky, here’s what to do:

1) 🍓 use an oil of your choice (we like the Ice Queen Face Oil, grape seed oil spray, or avocado oil)

2) 🧊 add a few drops or sprays of the oil to the hinges of the roller

3) 🪄 voilà! no more squeak

  • 🤍 Place your clean ice roller in the freezer for at least 15 minutes in order to get the aluminum roller icy cold. Before each use, roll on your wrist around 8 times, to ensure it’s not too cold on your face.
  • 🤍 Roll up on your face to help reduce puffiness, helping boost circulation by bringing blood to the skin surface - helping restore radiance.
  • 🤍 Roll down your neck to help drain toxins away.
  • 🤍 Have minor neck and shoulder pain or tension? Use the ice roller to help alleviate minor discomforts.
  • 🤍 To help ensure your Ice Roller is ready for use at any time, keep it in your freezer whenever not in use.

Step one: wet wash cloth 🧼

Step two: add some soap & get sudsy

Step three: using the cloth, gently wash the roller, cleaning all around the hinges & hot pink edge 🛁

Step four: rinse roller under faucet

Step five: lay flat to dry or pat dry with towel 🤍

The tool weighs in at over half a pound (9.9oz to be exact!). When getting professional facial manipulation, you have a pair of strong hands working over your face. The way to emulate that technique at home is with a tool that is large in terms of size and has weight to it, to help dig into muscles and tissue with minimal effort.

Full dimensions: Length: 7 11/16” Width (ice roller only): 3 ½” Weight: 9.9 oz

You can use THE HOT MESS ICE ROLLER anytime, anywhere - morning or night! Morning: great as a morning pick-me-up to get your day started or after applying your Ice Queen Face Oil. Night: use at the end of your nighttime skincare routine to help lock your serums and moisturizers' ingredients into your pores.

Most metals retain cold much better than other materials like plastic and polyurethane because they’re good thermal conductors. We chose aluminum as it’s a cleaner metal that does not rust while being lightweight compared to other metals like stainless steel. Also some of the other ice rollers on the market have a thin aluminum or stainless band around a hollow plastic roller, while the roller in the Hot Mess Ice Roller is solid aluminum - because of this denser use of aluminum, it helps hold the cold for much longer.

Solid aluminum is safe to use on your skin. As an extra safety precaution, we had our product independently tested for Skin Toxicity. Results confirmed that this is safe for use and highly unlikely to cause skin irritation.


Morning: ice roll as a morning pick-me-up to get your day started before or after applying your ICE QUEEN FACE OIL.

Night: ice roll after cleansing and apply your ICE QUEEN FACE OIL at the end of your nighttime skincare routine, to help lock your serums and moisturizers’ ingredients into your pores.

Apply three to four drops of the face oil onto your hands. Rub your hands together and press the oil into your skin.

Additional tip: add one drop of the face oil to your foundation for a lighter, dewier look.

  • 🤍 Restore skin’s natural moisture barrier
  • 🤍 Replenishes hydration, helping prevent moisture loss while protecting skin
  • 🤍 Helps reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles
  • 🤍 Pomegranate Seed Oil: rich in Vitamin C and antioxidants.
  • 🤍 Raspberry Seed Oil: Rubus Idaeus (Raspberry) Seed Oil - Contains one of the highest antioxidant, and phytosterols contents, of any of the vegetable or fruit oils. Effectively moisturizes and improves skin elasticity, reduces wrinkles, dryness and skin lines. It contains a significant amount of Vitamin A.
  • 🤍 Blueberry Seed Oil: Vaccinium Corymbosum (Blueberry) Seed Oil - Very powerful antioxidant. Helps improve the skin’s hydration, elasticity, smoothness and density.
  • 🤍 Menthol– Gives soothing and cooling sensation to the skin.

The Ice Queen Face Oil contains a small amount of an essential oil blend that gives the oil a natural, pleasant light scent that does not smell cloying, sweet or off-putting. This blend is all-natural and does not contain synthetic ingredients - ensuring that this product is synthetic fragrance-free.

The blend contains:

  • 🤍 Citrus Medica Limonum (Lemon) Peel Oil
  • 🤍 Citrus Aurantium Bergamia Peel Oil
  • 🤍 Zingiber Officinale (Ginger) Root Oil
  • 🤍 Ferula Galbaniflua (Galbanum) Resin Oil
  • 🤍 Cistus Ladaniferus Oil Ocimum Basilicum (Basil) Oil
  • 🤍 Salvia Sclarea (Clary) Oil
  • 🤍 Artemisia Vulgaris Oi l
  • 🤍 Juniperus Communis Fruit Oil
  • 🤍 Thuja Occidentalis Leaf Oil
  • 🤍 Vetiveria Zizanoides Root Oil
  • 🤍 Litsea Cubeba Fruit Oil
  • 🤍 Tagetes Minuta Flower Oil
  • 🤍 Lavandula Angustifolia (Lavender) Oil
  • 🤍 Thymus Vulgaris (Thyme) Flower/Leaf Oil
  • 🤍 Pogostemon Cablin (Patchouli) Oil
  • 🤍 Prunus Amygdalus Dulcis (Sweet Almond) Oil

Our face oil does not contain pure coconut oil but does include a blend of Coconut Alkens and Coco-caprylate/Captate which are derived from coconut oil; the difference is that these ingredients have gone through the process of refinement that changes its composition from just pure coconut oil. The blend of these two coconut-derived ingredients have been tested for comedogenicity by a third-party and have been found to be non-comedogenic. We understand that each skin is unique, and recommend doing a patch test prior to using any new skincare product, to check whether your skin has any sensitivities prior to making the product a staple in your regimen.

The Ice Queen Oil was formulated with the highest quality ingredients, meeting the strictest standards across the industry for clean beauty. It is formulated without:

  • 🤍 Parabens
  • 🤍 Phthalates
  • 🤍 Formaldehydes
  • 🤍 Formaldehyde-releasers
  • 🤍 Oxybenzone
  • 🤍 Coal tar
  • 🤍 Hydroquinone
  • 🤍 Triclosan

In addition, it is also:

  • 🤍 Vegan
  • 🤍 Cruelty-free
  • 🤍 Synthetic Fragrance Free

While our product has been tested to ensure safety, we always recommend that you consult with your doctor first and perform a patch test prior to using any cosmetic product.


DO: Cleanse your skin before shaving and dry it completely — this is super important. (You can add some oil or facial shaving cream just as long as your skin is squeaky fucking clean.)

DO: Use the HOT SHAVE RAZOR, which was designed with a straight edge, single-blade razor, specifically for women’s facial shaving. (The best in the game, obviously.)

DON’T: Use a dull blade — because who wants to use a limp-dick razor blade that can irritate your skin? Not us.

DO: Ensure your skin is pulled taut and your razor is angled at 45-degrees, then start shaving downward in short, gentle strokes. Be mindful not to drag it against your skin, and shave with the hair’s grain, rather than against it.

DO: Rinse the razor after each stroke.

DO: Change your blades after 1-2 uses, and always sanitize your blades between the first and second use. We recommend cleaning with rubbing alcohol.

DON’T: Shave near your eyes… because that sounds like a recipe for disaster.

DON’T: Shave over broken skin, an inflamed area, or raised moles. Either shave around those areas or wait until your skin has calmed down.

DO: Rinse your face after shaving and use the HOT MESS ICE ROLLER to tighten and cool the skin. Then finish off with the ICE QUEEN FACE OIL to plump and nourish. Then snap a selfie because my god you will be absolutely GLOWING.

DO: Shave every 1-3 weeks, depending on your hair growth rate and personal preference — and say BUH-BYE to your peach fuzz.

What’s the benefit of shaving my face? Not only does facial shaving remove unwanted peach fuzz and facial hair, but it also helps to remove dead skin cells and exfoliate the skin, which allows for deeper absorption of your skincare products. As a result, you’ll notice improved skin texture and a dewier, more radiant complexion. One of our favorite benefits, though, is that it allows your makeup to go on so much smoother.


  • removes dead skin cells and gently exfoliates your skin, giving you a dewy, radiant glow.
  • helps your skincare products absorb deeper into the skin, resulting in a healthier, happier complexion.
  • improves skin texture and aids in anti-aging.
  • helps makeup go on smoother.

Will my hair grow back thicker and darker? No! This is a common misconception. Shaving will not affect your body’s natural keratin cells, and thus, won’t change your facial hair’s color, thickness, or rate of growth. (Hot tip: avoid shaving against the direction of your hair growth, as that can make your hair feel as though it has a ‘blunter’ end.)

How often should I shave? Most people find that shaving once every 1-3 weeks works well for them, but you can decide for yourself based on personal preference.

Nope, not at all!

The skin on our face is much more sensitive than the skin anywhere else on our bodies, hence why we went through rounds and rounds of testing to create a razor that would be gentle enough for women to use on their faces.

We like to change our blades after 3-8 uses to prevent bacteria build-up and blade dulling — because, ew. (Just be sure to sanitize your blade with rubbing alcohol between the first and second use.).

You know your skin best, but if you have any open acne it’s best to use extra caution. We suggest shaving around acne to avoid spreading bacteria or waiting until it has cleared altogether.

Easy-to-use, comfortable, and ergonomic handle with finger divot helps you gently remove any facial hair and "peach fuzz." Finger print placement guide, for better grip and control.


Simply apply a thin layer of HOT SHAVE CREAM onto wet skin before shaving with our HOT SHAVE RAZOR. Ensure your skin is pulled taut and your HOT SHAVE RAZOR is angled at 45-degrees, then start shaving downward in short, gentle strokes. Be mindful not to drag it against your skin. Once you’ve finished shaving, rinse thoroughly and pat dry. Then, use our HOT MESS ICE ROLLER to cool the skin and apply our ICE QUEEN FACE OIL to plump and soothe.

The HOT SHAVE cream allows for an improved glide and helps to prevent nicks or cuts. helps achieve a closer shave, giving you radiantly smooth skin. nourishes and moisturizes dry skin with rich emollients like shea butter, aloe, and olive oil. leaves your skin feeling soft and supple, long after rinsing.

  • Gives improved glide to prevent nicks and cuts while shaving
  • Moisturizes for soft and supple skin even after rinsing
  • Allows for a closer shave for smoother skin
  • A blend of rich emollients and hydrating humectants help to nourish dry skin

THE HOT SHAVE CREAM was created specifically for shaving facial peach fuzz and ensuring a close, hydrating shave. Other shave creams ( especially those marketed towards females ) are too harsh to be used on the face, with inflammatory toxic ingredients. THE HOT SHAVE CREAM was made to nourish and moisturize dry skin with rich emollients like shea butter, aloe, and olive oil.

Yes! THE HOT SHAVE CREAM was formulated for all skin types. In fact THE HOT SHAVE CREAM is so nourishing & sensitive skin friendly, we sometimes use it as a hydrating face mask.

Of course! Use it wherever you want. Safe for all sensitive areas ;)

Yes you can, there are benefits to both dry and wet shaving.

Yes you can, there are benefits to both dry and wet shaving.


  • Glycerin: a humectant to help increase the skin's ability to retain moisture
  • Cetyl Alcohol: an moisturize emollient to promote a smooth shave while conditioning the skin
  • Cocoglycerides: softens the skin to give a more supple feel
  • Shea Butter: an intensely moisturizing ingredient to soften and smooth the skin
  • Cocoa Butter: a rich emollient to deeply nourish the skin and replenish its moisture
  • Olive Oil: hydrates dry, flakey skin
  • Allantoin: soothes dry skin while helping the skin retain moisture
  • Aloe Leaf Juice: helps alleviate dry, itchy skin by giving it a boost of hydration
  • Blend of Sunflower Extract, Rosemary Extract, Rice Bran Extract and Vitamin E: this blend of nourishing botanicals provides antioxidant benefits to the skin








CHLORIDE, CI 17200 (RED 33 LAKE), CI 42090 (BLUE 1)


THE SLEEPING BAG is insulated, padded, and water resistant (but not water proof).

  • easy to use drawstring so your HOT MESS ice roller stays put
  • keeps your ice roller clean & smelling delicious
  • keeps acne-causing bacteria off your HOT MESS
  • easy to grab on the go & throw into your purse
  • smooth material so your ice roller won’t stick to the bag
  • keeps the cold in

Tuck your HOT MESS ICE ROLLER right into THE SLEEPING BAG and place it directly into your freezer or fridge. Remove when you’re ready to roll.

Wash The Sleeping Bag like you would lingerie. Hand wash with cold water & a gentle cleanser, then lay flat to dry.


If using the ice roller, always use it first to de-puff the face. Then apply THE ICE QUEEN FACE OIL to ensure things roll smoothly. Next, gently roll the PINK BALLS FACE MASSAGER upwards along the cheeks and jawline, even the nose area. If you’re feeling extra (we always are), roll downward on your neck to drain the lymphatic system or even on the décolletage, tits, or any area of your body that needs some extra love. Such a seamless, quick, EFFECTIVE addition to your morning routine. Once finished, continue with your skincare routine. Display on vanity or bedside- ya, she’s THAT pretty. HOT TIP: always roll UPWARDS on the face, not downwards (we want to be lifting, not sagging, DUH). However we do like rolling down the neck area, to drain the lymph in the face. GET BALLS DEEP IN A SCULPTING AT-HOME FACIAL. CHEERS!

It is a fully custom-made design. The whole tool is bigger and heavier than what is available in the marketplace helping provide targeted sculpting for your face and body. The size of the balls paired with the diamond-cut prizms also provide a tighter grip on your face for a deep kneading effect of a professional facial massage - without all the extra effort.

Take a damp washcloth with warm soapy water and gently rub her down. Let her air dry then she’s good to go.

Your HOT MESS ICE ROLLER & PINK BALLS FACE MASSAGER are meant to work in tandem and compliment each other. While the ice roller is so effective for depuffing, tightening, soothing & reducing redness, mixing the routine with your PINK BALLS is a game-changer. They really are the yin and yang: the ice roller rids puff and the massager chisels & sculpts, making you look super contoured before you even put on skincare or makeup. Also it eliminates toxins through lymphatic drainage & toughens up your muscles. Together they create the most lifted face ever.

If using the ice roller, always use it first to de-puff the face. Then apply your ICE QUEEN FACE OIL to ensure things roll smoothly. Next, gently roll your PINK BALLS FACE MASSAGER upwards along the cheeks and jawline, even the nose area.

Facial massage has so many benefits: relieves tension, releases toxins, boosts circulation, improves product absorption, is relaxing & just feels GOOD. Over time, the lack of circulation/fine lines in our faces can be aging. By doing facial massage you stimulate the blood flow creating juicy, plump skin that is also chiseled and toned. Visibly sculpt, tone and rejuvenate skin for a firmer, more contoured appearance. PINK BALLS FACE MASSAGER mimics the effect of a deep-kneading professional facial massage for a more relaxed look.

Think INSTANT FACE LIFT, baby. This innovative, pretty tool was designed to visibly sculpt, tone, and rejuvenate the skin for a firmer, more sculpted appearance. So go ahead and get balls deep in this contouring at-home facial massager. Your PINK BALLS FACE MASSAGER mimics the effects of an indulgent, professional facial massage to release tension you may not even know you’re holding onto. And MY GOD it works- like it tones your face while manipulating the muscles responsible for tightening, toning, and chiseling— plus, it will help your skin absorb ICE QUEEN FACE OIL for all-day radiance and glow. Think of it like this: you go to the gym to work out your muscles, but your face muscles need to be worked too. Chisel, chisel!

You can use any oil of choice to ensure things roll smoothly. We like ICE QUEEN OIL for its depuffing qualities, but it pairs well with any nourishing face oil of choice.

It’s completely up to you. We like to use in the morning to chisel and sculpt the face before applying makeup and at night to give your face an at-home massage. It’s a seamless addition to your morning or night routine.

No. Batteries and power are not needed. The angular disco-like balls will chisel the face while comfortably gliding over the jaw line, cheek bones, décolletage, tits, and/or arms.

We recommend that you do not use after Botox or injections as you do not want to affect your treatment or cause your Botox to migrate. Consult with your doctor before you begin any form of facial massage.

This is completely up to your personal preference. There is no wrong amount of time to massage your face. Chisel, sculpt, and massage your face for the amount of time that works best in your routine.

No, this should be kept out on your vanity or bedside table.

We love the SLEEPING BAG for storing and traveling. However, you can use any protective case of choice, hang her up, or display her on your vanity.

The PINK BALLS FACE MASSAGER is safe to use on any area of the face. Make sure to use oil and roll gently around sensitive areas.

Be sure to stalk us on Instagram and TikTok: @theskinnyconfidential for visuals, tips, and tricks. If you have any questions, please email support@shopskinnyconfidential.comfor any product FAQ’s.


The hands and arms are where we show age first so let's keep things youthful and protected with The Skinny Confidential's BOUGIE DRIVING GLOVES. Sun protection gloves with UPF 50 help protect your hands and arms from harmful UVA and UVB rays from the sun. The soft, breathable stretch fabric is stylish, super chic and comfortable. Recommended for any activities that leave your arms & hands vulnerable to the sun. Made from soft, breathable stretch fabric, they’re the perfect accessory for driving, golfing, walking, gardening, pushing a stroller, playing tennis, sipping lemon drop martinis, yachting, YOU GET IT. Also great to use during a gel manicure for skin health & protection. The best part? They’re fingerless, so you can take as many selfies as you want, BABY.


Le Spoon is a versatile body sculpting tool, custom designed to help boost circulation, reduce puffiness, relieve muscle tension, break down fascia, boost collagen production, reduce inflammation, promote blood flow, and help with lymphatic drainage. It can help you look and feel sculpted and rejuvenated.

Le Spoon is designed with a silicone handle that ensures a secure, non-slip grip. Its aluminum structure naturally feels cold to the touch, providing an additional depuffing benefit during use.

  • Prepare the area you’ll be massaging with your favorite oil or moisturizer to avoid traction. 
  • Press the lymph nodes on the back of your knees and under your armpits 5 times to optimize your body for detoxification. 
  • Using gentle pressure, glide the curved edge up the legs, down the torso, up the arms, and down the neck — this sequence will help toxins make their way to the lymph nodes for drainage. Repeat each stroke 5 times.

Le Spoon features distinct sides for various body areas:

  • The longer sides are ideal for larger areas like the arms, shoulders, and back.
  • The grooved side is perfect for deep massage, targeting areas such as the calves and thighs.
  • The pointed section allows for precise massage and pressure point therapy.

For best results, we recommend using Le Spoon 2-3 times per week. You can adjust the frequency to suit your personal preferences and needs.

You can use the body sculptor at any time of day that fits your routine. Use it before/after an invigorating cold morning shower or for relaxation in your evening wind down. 

Le Spoon's unique design sets it apart from other tools on the market. Its distinct sides were designed to fit each area of your body with ease. Its effectiveness and aesthetic appeal also make it a valuable addition to elevate your beauty and wellness routine.

Yes, mild bruising may occur due to increased blood flow to the skin's surface during the massage. This is a normal response, and users are advised to use Le Spoon 2-3 times per week for best results.


The intense, natural bristles remove dry skin from the body, which unclogs pores, leaving you silky smooth.

Yes! By stimulating an area on your skin, it attracts blood flow in that area. 

It is. When blood is flowing in an area, it reduces waste buildup, helping with inflammation.

By removing dead skin cells from the body and unclogging pores, it allows your skin to breath and release toxins better through sweat. The motion of dry brushing also stimulates your lymphatic system which helps you detox from toxins and waste in your body, as well as reducing inflammation.

You should do this before bathing so that you can rinse off your dry, dead skin cells and apply your products onto silky, fresh skin.

You can dry brush every single day. We recommend a few minutes - enough time to brush your entire body.



Using the power of caffeine to lift, tighten and firm, our SPF 40 caffeinated sunscreen is here to nourish your skin while blocking the sun’s rays. Create the perfect canvas for your makeup with The Skinny Confidential caffeinated sunscreen as the last step in your skincare routine.

Every single morning after your skincare, before your makeup.

Feel free to use a damp makeup sponge too to apply.


Zinc oxide and titanium dioxide are the two mineral sunscreen filters generally recognized as safe and effective by the FDA. These two active ingredients for a barrier on the surface of the skin to protect from the sun’s damaging UV rays. 

Caffeine - reduces the appearance of wrinkles and puffiness on the skin; antioxidant which helps to tighten, firm, and combat UV damage

Spirulina Maxima Extract - combats digital aging by fighting against blue light

Antioxidant Blend (Rice Bran Extract, Rosemary Leaf Extract, Sunflower Extract, Vitamin E)  - provides antioxidant protection

Squalane – provides moisturization benefits.

Plankton extract – provides even skin tone benefits.

Bisabolol –  provides calming benefits for sensitive skin. 

Allantoin – provides calming benefits for sensitive skin.


Zinc Oxide 1.00%Titanium Dioxide 2.00%


Allantoin Avena Sativa (Oat) Kernel Extract Bisabolol Butyloctyl Salicylate C12-15 Alkyl Benzoate Caffeine Camellia Sinensis Leaf Extract Caprylyl Glycol Ceteth-20 Cetyl Alcohol Dicrateria Rotunda Oil Dimethiconol/Caprylylsilsesquioxane/Silicate Crosspolymer Dimethiconol/Propylsilsesquioxane/Silicate Crosspolymer Disodium EDTA Ethylhexyl Isononanoate Ethylhexylglycerin Glycerin Glyceryl Stearate Helianthus Annuus (Sunflower) Extract Hexylene Glycol Hydrolyzed Sodium Hyaluronate Iron Oxides Lecithin Lysolecithin Neopentyl Glycol Diheptanoate Octyldodecyl Neopentanoate Oryza Sativa (Rice) Bran Extract PEG-75 Stearate Phenoxyethanol Plankton Extract Polyester-7 Potassium Sorbate Pullulan Pyrus Malus (Apple) Fruit Extract Rosmarinus Officinalis (Rosemary) Leaf Extract Ruttnera Lamellosa Oil Sclerotium Gum Silica Sodium Ascorbate Sodium CitrateSodium Hyaluronate Squalane Steareth-20 Sucrose Tocopherol Triceteareth-4 Phosphate Trilaureth-4 Phosphate Water Xanthan Gum

Physical sunscreens (sometimes called mineral sunscreens) use minerals that sit on top of skin and reflect away UV rays.

Chemical sunscreens use ingredients that absorb and transform UV rays into heat.